Why do some cats attack you when stroked?
from 2003 Holiday Newsletter
Maisy is a one year-old cat that lives with Renee and her two school age boys. She has always gotten along well with the children, but lately whenever they pet her — even when she solicits the attention herself — after a content purring time with eyes half closed, she suddenly turns around, bites or lashes out with her paw and scurries a way.
Theories about this behavior
The cat:
- Is tired of the attention. Watch for clues: tip of tail twitches, ears start to go back.
- Was asleep, awakes with a start, forgets where she is, and protects herself.
- May feel confined or restrained.
- May be over-stimulated.
- May be hypersensitive to touch.
- Kittens who are just learning to play may get a little rough.
- A senior may have pain in places where she is stoked. If you suspect this, contact a veterinarian.
Tips for stopping this behavior:
- Do not stroke the sensitive abdominal area. The natural reaction of a belly-up cat is to defend himself.
- If your cat leaps up on your lap, stroke him gently and then let him simply sit for a while without touch.
- Speak in a soothing tone when petting him.
Nearly any cat, with patience and care, can be taught to enjoy touch — and this will benefit both of you.
